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The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Southland based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

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Meeting likeminded people in your area is what this site is all about. We connect open minded adults all over NZ looking for some NSA sex or some harmless online flirting. Adult dating sites offer many benefits over traditional dating sites.

Firstly, there is no need to be deceitful. All our members are here for the same reason, finding new sex partners. There is no need to pretend to be looking for something more just to get sex. Here you can be completely open and honest about what you want. Secondly, our privacy settings are generally more strict than that of other forms of online dating sites. Due to the nature of the sex dating scene our members appreciate anonymity.

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JASON, 31 from Taupo, Waikato

I need to taste some fresh pussy...

DANEBY, 72 from Southland

Daneby has yet to add his profile. Ask Daneby for more info.

ROSS, 32 from Tauranga, Bay Of Plenty

Not going to bother signing up for this as i'm suspicious of the authenticity of some profiles that are emailing me... so i can't read messages. But i will use the little yellow ghost if you can read betweeen the lines. Internet search if you dont understand and use tiwitarkwi1 to match me once you figure it out. Filthy fun with like-minded people.

BOB, 44 from Southland

Bob winked at you (Saturday at 1:58am) Bob sent you a message: "How's Jane?" (Friday at 1:06am) Bob sent you a message: "What's Jane upto?" (1st Feb at 1:56am) Bob winked at you (21st Jan at 1:18am)

CANUCK, 39 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Looking for someone a little different? How about someone that will treat you with respect when out in public, but knows how to get a little "nasty" when there's alone time. I'm a dedicated person in my day to day, to my career and friends. And I'm a good hearted, and kind person. Just have a whip of a sarcasm. Looking for someone to get the wild and fun burnt back inside my soul. Drop me a line...Even if at the end it's a "mic drop" moment, and there's no encore to it....It's all good. I do have humour and love when someone can hold their own.

STEVEN, 32 from Southland

The heart is treacherous, who can know it.....

GN, 32 from Hamilton, Waikato

Chilled and relaxed..

BRENDON, 53 from Saint Albans, Canterbury

Brendon winked at you (21st Jan at 3:27am)

RICHARD, 49 from Dannevirke, Hawke's Bay

Richard sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (yesterday at 8:29am) Richard sent you a message: "hi Jane" (Saturday at 12:19am)

JONATHAN, 53 from Auckland, Auckland

Jonathan winked at you (Thursday at 1:18am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (1st Feb at 11:11pm) Jonathan winked at you (27th Jan at 2:33am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (27th Jan at 1:41am) Jonathan sent you a message: "hi jane" (27th Jan at 1:41am)

STEPHEN, 63 from Papakura, Auckland

Stephen winked at you (Thursday at 3:13am) Stephen winked at you (12th Jan at 2:00am)

SAM, 40 from Devonport, Auckland

Sam sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (30th Jan at 1:38pm) Sam winked at you (30th Jan at 1:37pm)

JOHN, 67 from Taupo, Waikato

John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (29th Jan at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Veiwing" (29th Jan at 5:16am) John sent you a message: "Role playing" (19th Jan at 2:22am)

ANDRE, 47 from Auckland, Auckland

I am pretty much a straight up person. I was wondering if there is any one lady to be daring. And willing to play truth and dare instead of just talking. Let's see you come out and play if you dare. I am married and looking for single ladies who are lntrested in maried men. Or married woman who intrested in married men.Love to please ladies who enjoy sex and i understand a womans needs. Always willing to take sex to next level cause it's has endless possibilties. I like clean shaven ladies who have nice attitude and sense of humour also who have nice toe nails and fingernails I really adore this. I am clean shaven on my chest and penis area as I don't like body hair. Also I have a PAP ANYONE UP TO IT.

BOHEMIA, 28 from Auckland, Auckland

Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia sent you a message: "Hi" (16th Jan at 6:05am) Bohemia winked at you (16th Jan at 6:05am)

FRAN, 33 from Matamata, Waikato

Fran has yet to add his profile. Ask Fran for more info.

STEWART, 54 from Helensville, Auckland

Looking for a fun girl with a wicked sense of humor and a quick wit. Naughty but nice sugar and spice. Like to teach love being taught. Love to make women feel satisfied .

RICK, 26 from Southland

Am 25 skinny about 5f love my fat guy and woman. looking for bbw woman or bears fat guys. Love to meet sum old young big chubby fat.

PAUL, 58 from Pukekohe East, Auckland

Paul sent you a message: "hiya Jane" (Saturday at 8:44am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 9:26am) Paul added you as a Favourite (20th Apr at 7:12am) Paul winked at you (20th Apr at 12:41am) Paul winked at you (11th Apr at 7:59am)

RYAN, 27 from Christchurch, Canterbury

Ryan winked at you (Friday at 2:08am)

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