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Single Dom woman looking for a sub to explore with Female 36 from Oxford, UK

I'm goddess Xena siren a lifestyle dominatrix lady with much and more experience
Whether you seek a strict Mistress, a caring mummy or sadistic nurse in  pvc, i will make your fantasy a reality with my perfect blend of sensual and stern. It doesn't matter if you're completely new to the world of kink or you're a seasoned sub desperate to taste every naughty aspect of BDSM and expand more, I tailor each and every session to the specific requests and needs of my subs, because no two people are alike! I love nothing more than looking into a subs eyes as I blow their mind into oblivion while knowing exactly what makes them tick. Do you want to explore your deepest darkest most fucked-up fantasy with me or do you simply want to lay in my arms and be told you're a good boy? Why not both...do get in touch


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Have always been aware of an attraction to BDSM but assumed it was always for fantasy.  Recently became aware that this is something which could be pursued ‘irl’. But where to begin?


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Sub looking for a Dom to treasure, enjoy and learn from. Female 47 from Bicester, UK

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Im 37 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 37 from Oxford, UK

I'm 37 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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Im 39 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 39 from Oxford, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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Submissive sub needed to explore my fetish Female 25 from Oxford, UK

Am a kinky mistress who is always dominant, have been into the lifestyle for over 12years and dominated 4subs


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Im 33 years old, living in the Oxford region. Female 33 from Oxford, UK

I'm 33 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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