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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-32.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 46-67.
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Interests, Couples

Have always been aware of an attraction to BDSM but assumed it was always for fantasy. Recently became aware that this is something which could be pursued ‘irl’. But where to begin?
Straight
Looking for, ages 33-63.
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I am an assertive, strong woman during the day but loves to submit to a dominant. I appreciate it when a man takes control and has that self-confidence that goes with it. I'm also looking for someone who will cater for my needs just as much as his.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-56.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 30-80.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 37-85.
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I'm calm,loving and caring ladies ..Also like having fun .
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-86.
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Straight
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Straight
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Straight
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I'm 37 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 52-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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Straight
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I'm 39 years old, living in the Oxford region.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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Am a kinky mistress who is always dominant, have been into the lifestyle for over 12years and dominated 4subs
Straight
Looking for, ages 41-90.
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I'm 33 years old, living in the Oxford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 24 and 82.
Straight
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34 year old single woman looking to learn about this
Straight
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We are willing to try anything same sex to both sexs and safe sex to bearbk its all new to us but wud love to try it see if its for us
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-48.
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I am a fearless dominant mistress who derive pleasure in giving out pains, come to me let me free you of your burdens
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 18-72.
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I am active Mistress, kind, sympathetic,open and I have no limits.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 36-83.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

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Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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