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am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion and.. Female 25 from Kent, UK

I a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.


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We are a straight couple looking for a male to join us in having a bit of fun. W.. Couple 32, 35 from Chatham, UK

A couple looking for a male 3rd to join us in some fun.
New to this


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Hi dear, ive been anticipating the day a loyal sub will come my way and please .. Female 43 from Canterbury, UK

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Hi inexperienced submissive hoping to find the right man.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

I’m very willing and wanting to learn and please someone I will give my whole self to you


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Hi meeting new people I love and to play Female 51 from Kent, UK

Having fun when playing naked.
I love cuddles I rough play


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Heyy i am a sub looking for a dom Female 19 from Kent, UK

I’m 19 from the uk
I am a student
And I can be whatever you want


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Dominant craftswoman seeking inspiration. Female 49 from Rochester, UK

Am an open minded and experimental soul who will try anything at least once. What gets me excited is deep conversations (hate small talk, I know what the weather is), outrageous flirting, and extended eye contact charged with sexual chemistry and anticipation.I’m a participant in the alternate adult game of BDSM the game is about rules and roles,I will help you embrace your role.


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I Dont bite feel free to text me and I will reply ...looking to meet someone lo.. Female 44 from Kent, UK

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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .


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Im 40 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 40 from Kent, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 43 and 99.


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Straight but curious mistress.clean and discreet and looking for a submissive sw.. Female 34 from Bearsted, UK

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Things have changed but I still want to talk dirty and get so wet Female 41 from Kent, UK

I'm 41 years old, such a slut currently pregnant but want to hear what you want to do to this horny slut


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New to this will be are first time looking for fun Couple 27, 26 from Queenborough, UK

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If you’re looking for a bad boy/girl, look no further—I’m bad at everything. Female 34 from Kent, UK

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Couple seeking fun, enjoyment, sexual pleasure. Easy going love banter. Couple 57, 37 from Maidstone, UK

Been together 6 years. Want to put some into our sexual relationship. Happy to go with the flow.


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Im 39 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 39 from Kent, UK

I'm 39 years old, living in the Kent region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 39 and 81.


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Disciplinarian and bondage Mistress. Dominant lady with a dungeon Multi skille.. Female 37 from Kent, UK

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Im looking for serious minded person to have real good fun Female 28 from Kent, UK

I'm a simple lady interested in exploring all my kinky preferences


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Go on your knees and say: Pain is my passion, and my passion is my pain.” “I wo.. Female 29 from Maidstone, UK

Your kink mistress for all round fantasies in the lifestyle


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If your dick isnt bigger than mine Im locking you away in chastity and flushin.. Female 38 from Canterbury, UK

Lost souls often wander aimlessly, seeking purpose. In my empire, I offer direction. As your Goddess, I provide a path for you to follow, a role to fulfil. Embrace your true calling: worship me. Find purpose in every tribute, every act of service. Revel in the satisfaction of serving your Goddess.


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I definitely need a man who is not afraid of action. I need a man who is ready t.. Female 42 from Kent, UK

I am a loving woman, caring, sweet, understanding and romantic. I have many goals in life and one of them,


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i am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

I am DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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I identify as a sparky dome , looking for my boys! Come find me. I dont like to.. Female 35 from Rochester, UK

I'm  a Dom, come serve me to bring some extra colors to your life


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Bratty Sub, semi-new the lifestyle. . . want to explore more Female 22 from Kent, UK

I'm 22. Been into the lifestyle for nearly 6 years. In the bedroom and in daily life. Looking for a Dom/Rigger with experience who can tame me, guide me and teach me new things. Bondage/rope play is a big part, I'm a huge rope bunny. I'm also big on sensation play, I want to feel it all. I like a Dom who can be gentle but also be extremely rough, need to be kept on my toes! I do like the occasional romance every now and again tho  BDSM gives me a sense of freedom and peace from the stresses of life.


Pansexual

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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 27 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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