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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .


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I am nice and fun to be with ready to learn new things and explore kinky fantasi.. Female 38 from Otford, UK

I am nice and fun to be with ready to learn new things and explore kinky fantasies with others.


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Looking for men I can entertain… but mostly ones who can entertain me Female 27 from Bearsted, UK

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I dont know...just up for exploring some things -_-; Female 30 from Rochester, UK

Being dominated, tied up, told what to do, but pleasing me too


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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 27 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


Bisexual

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We are a straight couple looking for a male to join us in having a bit of fun. W.. Couple 32, 35 from Chatham, UK

A couple looking for a male 3rd to join us in some fun.
New to this


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Im stella and I love meeting new people! Female 25 from Canvey, UK

I'm from canvey,UK  and people say I'm friendly So let's talk xx


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I’m attractive fun spontaneous great sense of humour Female 55 from Maidstone, UK

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Looking for someone to drain Female 25 from Kent, UK

Female dominator looking for my next sub to drain. I haven’t found someone yet that can keep up or handle it - Specialise in Findom


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I definitely need a man who is not afraid of action. I need a man who is ready t.. Female 42 from Kent, UK

I am a loving woman, caring, sweet, understanding and romantic. I have many goals in life and one of them,


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Im 24 years old, living in the Ashford region. Female 25 from Ashford, UK

I'm 24 years old, living in the Ashford region.
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You must understand that Im a dominant woman that host sessions for submissive.. Female 35 from Kent, UK

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Heyy i am a sub looking for a dom Female 19 from Kent, UK

I’m 19 from the uk
I am a student
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am the perfect balance between intelligence and creativity, capable of surprisin.. Female 48 from Kent, UK

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am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desir.. Female 25 from Kent, UK

I an DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle. I've led the BDSM lifestyle for years now, i am not into blood or any form of permanent markings or bruises, i am not into much pain at all, rather, i like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring one's partner


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Im 27 years old, living in the Kent region. Female 27 from Kent, UK

I'm 27 years old, living in the Kent region.
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Im a dominant mistress who has lived
this lifestyle for years, and looking for .. Female 42 from Purfleet, UK

I enjoy quite alot of kinks too bondage,  restraints, 
role play,  collar lead,  leash,  body worship,  discipline, 
obedience training,  strap on play,  using sub as fuck
toy,  and Each relationship is unique and the people
involved make their own rules for it and boundaries
must be respected.  In this fashion I wanna be your
permanent queen and will be exclusive to you and
only you will have me as well.


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Am looking for a submissive sup Female 32 from Ashford, UK

Are you into Bdsm social lifestyle looking for a sub to explore with


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Professional mistress looking for a male or female to spank Female 29 from Kent, UK

Hi am Sandra who love to be spanked I take all implements including the dreaded cane but my favorite


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If you want a laugh and a great time, we are the ones for you Couple 58, 52 from Faversham, UK

We're who we say we are, we don't make plans & leave you hanging, we'll always let you know if change/cancel is needed PLEASE don't plan something with us & then disappear whilst we wait. We're fully aware, sometimes a meet could end up not further, either side, it's part of this lifestyle but don't waste people's time/ get them excited about a meet & then not having the decency to update. We're good looking (our mothers said it) fun & open to new things/ideas. Committed couple, married with a joy of life and the experiences it brings. Please don't approach us as individuals, we have open attitudes, but only play as a couple with total acceptance of the situation. NOT strangers to hard swap but only when together and enjoying a night, a day or a weekend. We are looking for a person/people to include in our life, so we want to connect as people as well as enjoy each other.We will call you out if you play us


Bisexual, Bisexual

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Inspired by erotica/vintage erotic, I am a submissive seeking a connection with .. Female 43 from Greenhithe, UK

I am a free spirit/open minded/attracted to unique characters.    I am seeking  a physical and mental attraction/connectio n    I am NOT seeking casual FUN one off encounters.     I am NOT a mistress/dominatrix.   If I show any interest in you,   I will make correspondence.  NO I.  D pic NO chat.


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I am an experienced dominatrix seeking a submissive male. Female 27 from Ashford, UK

Sweet, loyal, and caring mistress looking for a fit, mature man who has a high sex drive and isn't afraid to discuss both your fantasies and mine.


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Im 43 years old, living in the Maidstone region. Female 43 from Maidstone, UK

I'm 43 years old, living in the Maidstone region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 86.


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Large lady looking to explore . Female 42 from Chatham, UK

I want to explore the lifestyle , having always found my experiences wanting I would like to explore the possibility of submission


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