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Couple looking for male to join us. Couple 46, 41 from Portsmouth, UK

We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways. 
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.


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Im 34 years old, living in the Havant region. Female 34 from Havant, UK

I'm 34 years old, living in the Havant region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 25 and 45.


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Hello lovely people I’m down to earth and loyal Female 45 from Southampton, UK

I treat everyone equally and tolerate the views of others with big respect


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45 curvy plus size Chunky but Funky.. Fun loving Glass half full kinda gal open .. Female 45 from Fareham, UK

45 Plus size Fun loving Bubbly and Always a laugh ope to most things..


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Time flies when youre having fun! ⏰ Enjoy every moment and make the most of it.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ‍♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..


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Couple looking to explore. Get in contact! Couple 38, 38 from Portsmouth, UK

Couple in 30s looking to expand our sexlife, looking forward to seeing what’s out there


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Im 45 years old, living in the Southampton region. Female 46 from Southampton, UK

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.


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I am harsh but kind, I am demanding but generous I am your Goddess, you will bec.. Female 35 from Portsmouth, UK

I am at my happiest with a whip in my hand or a sl@ve balls under my boots. I particularly enjoy ballbusting and putting my sl@ves into chastity. I have many kinks including financial domination, CBT, feet worshipping, ball busting, humiliation, facesitting (over clothes as part of smothering), whipping, spanking, and many more..I get busy with lots of sessions so if I’m unavailable to respond to your messages you can reach me


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Open minded and discreet, looking forward in exploring our desires together. Female 31 from Portsmouth, UK

Keen for fun ,keen for love , keen for exploring and open minded in exploring new things.


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Im a mistress looking for a male sub to explore all my kinky preferences, hooku.. Female 29 from Southampton, UK

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Here for a good time not a long time Couple 27, 29 from Southampton, UK

Good sense of humour is essential ♡
Gym lover.

No snowflakes


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I seek a BDSM relationship with a submissive male. Im open to long term relatio.. Female 29 from Portsmouth, UK

I love hanging out with friends and getting to meet new people.


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Just here for fun don’t mess with me Female 25 from Southampton, UK

I'm 25 years old, I'm interested in meeting a couple or a men aged between 18 and 72.


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Very naughty and adorable and I’m search of a relationship Female 39 from Southampton, UK

I love and also get naughty when with my love and also I love caring men


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9yrs+ Teacher to sissy sub’sClasses, Task, and Dungeon visits are a Must Female 35 from Southampton, UK

If you won’t follow and obey orders, I won’t even reply you at just your first disobedience. I don’t waste no time.


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Im very kinky and love to explore really fun experiences just have pleasure, I.. Female 33 from Portsmouth, UK

I am open minded and free so i cherish discretion just make sure you're worth my juices


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New to the scene, but very interested in exploring this world, I’m a big girl so.. Female 25 from Portsmouth, UK

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Mistress looking for a sub who is willing to worship me Female 25 from Southampton, UK

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Looking for a serious friendship that can lead me somewhere Female 49 from Southampton, UK

Single looking for love and care a man that l can spend my time with


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Leave no stones unturned when walking through life and so finding passionate ple.. Female 27 from Southampton, UK

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I’m looking for a passionate playmate who isn’t afraid to live life to the fulle.. Female 48 from Southampton, UK

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Im Seduction, a captivating and empowering woman who is unafraid to embrace her.. Female 36 from Portsmouth, UK

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Looking for sex , romance and affectionate love Female 37 from Portsmouth, UK

Sexy , naughty , submissive and I can dominate too


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Looking for discreet matches with the right one. Im married and I need to be ca.. Female 36 from Southampton, UK

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Seeking for friendship and fun Female 46 from Southampton, UK

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