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We are a happily married couple, but we would like to find a guy between 25 and 50 who we could socialise with and have regular contact with, so we can then explore weekend breaks, nights out etc and become good friends. If you are after a one off please don't message as this is not what we are looking for.
There has to be a mutual connection both ways.
Dishy does not like to be controlled in the bedroom, and can be a little rough with her nails and maybe a little biting, she likes passion but is also very open minded
Dave is straight. Oh and a dick pic sent straight to my inbox does not impress me!
If you think this is you, please get in touch.
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-49.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Cuckold, Threesomes

I'm 34 years old, living in the Havant region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 25 and 45.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Anal, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Fetish, Lingerie, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Threesomes

I treat everyone equally and tolerate the views of others with big respect
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Threesomes

45 Plus size Fun loving Bubbly and Always a laugh ope to most things..
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 29-74.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun, Soft Swap, Threesomes

Ultimate Queen Diva. Looking for a sub playmate! Apply within ❤️ let’s have some fun ❤️Read on what a sub is required to do to worship their Queen - don’t waste my time ♀️ I won’t reply to “can we date” - I don’t date, sweetheart . When you approac..
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sub, Temperature Play, Voyeurism

Couple in 30s looking to expand our sexlife, looking forward to seeing what’s out there
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 20-65.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Bondage, Couples, Cuckold, Full Swap, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Sex Toys, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Voyeurism

I'm 45 years old, living in the Southampton region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Body Hair, Sexual Massage

I am at my happiest with a whip in my hand or a sl@ve balls under my boots. I particularly enjoy ballbusting and putting my sl@ves into chastity. I have many kinks including financial domination, CBT, feet worshipping, ball busting, humiliation, facesitting (over clothes as part of smothering), whipping, spanking, and many more..I get busy with lots of sessions so if I’m unavailable to respond to your messages you can reach me
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 26-74.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, Outdoor Fun

Keen for fun ,keen for love , keen for exploring and open minded in exploring new things.
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay

I'm a simple lady with the quest to explore all my sexual fantasies, I'm open to anything.
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-88.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Fetish, Threesomes

Good sense of humour is essential ♡
Gym lover.
No snowflakes
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 30-45.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Threesomes

I love hanging out with friends and getting to meet new people.
Straight
Looking for, ages 27-87.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom

I'm 25 years old, I'm interested in meeting a couple or a men aged between 18 and 72.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-72.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Group Sex, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

I love and also get naughty when with my love and also I love caring men
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Mature

If you won’t follow and obey orders, I won’t even reply you at just your first disobedience. I don’t waste no time.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 45-85.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I am open minded and free so i cherish discretion just make sure you're worth my juices
Straight
Looking for, ages 32-89.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Dirty Talk, Dom, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes

Completely letting go is what makes me happy, I dislike making decisions so the ability to relax and give over control is what relaxes me.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-35.
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Interests, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Fun, romantic, adventure and willing to try new experiences.
Straight
Looking for, ages 25-90.
A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging
Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Sex Toys

Single looking for love and care a man that l can spend my time with
Straight
Looking for, ages 55-90.
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Interests, Age Gap, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bukkake, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, Lingerie, Nylons, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Sex Talk, Temperature Play

I wish I could write about what gets me excited but here is a picture, everyday we find our way to each other, I want nothing but sparks and unforgettable pleasure heights.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-70.
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Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Nature lover looking for someone who appreciates the tranquility of hiking trails, the beauty of starry nights, and the mountains.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-80.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, MILF, Petite, Roleplay, Sexual Massage, Sub

True servitude, loyalty, following of my instructions
Straight
Looking for, ages 60-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Sexy , naughty , submissive and I can dominate too
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Exhibitionism, Group Sex, Sex Toys, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Webcam

Looking for discreet matches with the right one. I'm married and I need to be careful.
Straight
Looking for, ages 23-80.
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Interests, BDSM, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Oral, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

I’m looking for friendships and fun. Let have fun..
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-83.
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Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, BBW / BHM, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Discreet Meets, Dom, Edging, Electro Play, Exhibitionism, Impact Play, Mature, Nylons, Petite, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Webcam

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