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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Essex

Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Southend-on-sea, UK , 48

Easygoing fun and adventurous,
Looking for like minded person

Seeking: Male

Im 30 years old, living in the Stansted region. Stansted, UK , 30

I'm 30 years old, living in the Stansted region. Not interested in hook ups. FINDOM subs only. Foot worship subs ONLY.

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Looking for my little piggy sub where are you your embarrassment is my pleasure Romford, UK , 29

Make all your submissive desires come true
I know what you want and what you need

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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Canvey Island, UK , 51

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress lead an adventurous life

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Hi a friend said this is the place I should go to look for fun Basildon, UK , 40

Love to play and have fun with men online or for realz

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Sexy , attractive, open minded couple looking for the right men , women and coup.. Bishops Stortford, UK , 45, 43

Me - blonde slim but with curves in the right places
Him - atheletic and dark

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Im 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region. Rayleigh, UK , 52

I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.

Seeking: Male

I am looking for a serious relationship involve honesty, trust, respect and open.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 65

A partner who is open-minded and conscientious shows us that they are willing to work hard to see our perspective and put effort into a relationship, showing us that we matter and are accepted for who we are. With someone who is emotionally stable, we can feel safe.

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Chelmsford, UK , 31

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.

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my what app Is O 7 nine, five,8 six,I,7 one 3,eight. Stock, UK , 51

I’m young woman but I am mature enough for family life. I know what kind of man I am looking for and understand that dating online can be challenging; still, I would like to be happy and ready to go on a date if you ask me out. I am romantic, feminine, tender. I love my friends and family.

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NOT 22 BUT 38!!!! Sweet Dominate woman, ready to explore those fantasies in your.. Colchester, UK , 23

Available for threesome with couples too. Don't come to me with false desire. Serious business only

Seeking: Male, Female, Couple

Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Canvey Island, UK , 47

Life is too short for man and woman to live on this earth.

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Heyyyy interested in new things, Southend-on-sea, UK , 39

I'm 39 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 50.

Seeking: Male

I’d never play hide and seek with you because someone as wonderful as you is inc.. Romford, UK , 29

Want to know who knows the capital of every country in the world? Me.

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Looking for couple to watch and watch us initially , some outdoor fun experience.. Basildon, UK , 46, 37

Voyuerism, outdoor fun , exhibitionism, BDSM, nudism, male on male,

Seeking: Male

Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Chelmsford, UK , 43

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.

Seeking: Male

We are a couple who want to explore with single males or other couples Basildon, UK , 43, 43

We are a couple who want to meet other couples or single males

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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Dagenham, UK , 47

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs. Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men

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Just here for the fun. Probably would go with whatever outcome this platform may.. Canvey Island, UK , 30

I'm a straight forward person, and as a matter of fact, a straight forward person is also expected to come my way.

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

Thanks.

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Not new to the BDSM scene, also Bi. Love when a person abdicates their will and .. Southend-on-sea, UK , 29

Ask me anything you might want to know. Just a dm away

Seeking: Male, Female, Couple, Someone Else

Im 24 years old, living in the Romford region. Romford, UK , 24

I'm 24 years old, living in the Romford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

Seeking: Male

To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Upminster, UK , 25

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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cuckold couple looking for single guy Chelmsford, UK , 68, 67

we are a mature couple looking for a single guy aged 25 - 45 for 121 meets with wife would prefer regular meets

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Love is the key to happiness to me Let’s have fun together Tiptree, UK , 60

I’m easy going woman, loving, caring,kind hearted………

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