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Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x


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Love is the key to happiness to me Let’s have fun together Female 60 from Tiptree, UK

I’m easy going woman, loving, caring,kind hearted………


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Looking for something extra, message as, we would love to get to know you. Couple 40, 42 from Dartford, UK

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I’m very horny and clingy I have a high sex drive and I will love to meet someon.. Female 40 from Benfleet, UK

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New to this will be are first time looking for fun Couple 27, 26 from Queenborough, UK

Looking for male to join us want to give my partner the night of her life


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Wanna have fun, check me out I have a surprise for you Female 43 from Shorne, UK

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In love couple looking to fulfil desires. MMF Threesomes are what we are into. L.. Couple 41, 41 from Rainham, UK

We are a happy and relaxed couple that enjoy our sex life. We are looking to broaden the horizons a little with a little bit of spice. Looking for a respectable third who can keep within the boundaries while also exploring and having fun. She takes a bit of pleasing so 2 makes it a bit better.Not interested in seedy people.Nice to have a chat and get to know someone. Not too interested in pre written messages, so won’t be responding to anyone using those. Face picture a must also. Just relax and be genuine.


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I identify as a sparky dome , looking for my boys! Come find me. I dont like to.. Female 35 from Rochester, UK

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Looking for someone casually to go out with and have fun Female 48 from Southend-on-sea, UK

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Im 29 years old, living in the Shoreham region. Female 29 from Chatham, UK

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I am looking for that special older one who will rekindle the flame of passion a.. Female 29 from Rochester, UK

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Im a dominant mistress who has lived
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toy,  and Each relationship is unique and the people
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must be respected.  In this fashion I wanna be your
permanent queen and will be exclusive to you and
only you will have me as well.


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Looking for a couple to hsve sum fun with and explore with each other Couple 39, 40 from Chatham, UK

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im a dominant mistress looking for submissive Female 38 from Rochester, UK

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman


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Just here for the fun. Probably would go with whatever outcome this platform may.. Female 30 from Canvey Island, UK

I'm a straight forward person, and as a matter of fact, a straight forward person is also expected to come my way.


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Im looking for something ongoing and hopes it becomes something serious and per.. Female 51 from Chelmsford, UK

I'm Mistress Eliza and I'm looking for a lil lost kinky sub to train to become that perfect sissy slut for me


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Looking for something serious and fun Female 36 from Benfleet, UK

I like naughty and passionate man. I'm hoping I can find a man who is much older than me.


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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Female 47 from Canvey Island, UK

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A dom looking for a serious sub to serve me in real life Female 27 from Chatham, UK

I have urge to train your submissive mind, body and soul.


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I am looking for an older man near me Female 66 from Rochester, UK

I came on here to find guys who like fun with older women. I may be 66 but I have not lost any of my sexual urges, in fact I think they are stronger than ever. I prefer younger guys 30-45 but that is not set in stone so if you like my profile, just say hi.


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Welcome, seekers of pleasure and power! Step into my world, where fantasies beco.. Female 38 from Chatham, UK

Strict,  yet loving.
Sadist.
Love objectifying others as use them as I see fit.
Restraints.
CBT.
More extreme side of sadism.  Impact play is my forte.
Sissy/maid training.
Sensory deprivation.
Breath play.
Etc. . .


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Couple looking for fun male is straight , seeking well endowed guy for fun Couple 60, 60 from Bexley, UK

I like to watch wife having a good time, looking for long term fun


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Im 36 years old, living in Chatham Female 36 from Chatham, UK

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 45.There is a lot more to me but u will have to message me to find out


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Hey there I’m looking for fun and long term xx Female 43 from Rochester, UK

I will do anything to make my guy happy anything ..


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