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Straight
Looking for, ages 24-82.
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We are looking for some fun friends to play with and have good sex looking for some bbc
Straight, Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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I like to go to the cinema or theatre. I like active way of life. I like sport and go to the gym. Sport it is part of my life.
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-69.
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I'm 54 years old, living in the Saint Louis region.
I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 27 and 99.
Bisexual
Looking for, ages 27-90.
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I'm a dominant mistress looking for loyal submissive obedient understanding malesub to own and collared on 24/7 in the bdsm lifestyle
Straight
Looking for, ages 31-90.
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I love music, dancing,shaking my butty and going to the beach
Straight
Looking for, ages 34-48.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom

I’m Dominant and hope to meet someone who’s ready to explore the beauty of sub/sissy
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Roleplay

I want to be close to a serious man who makes a commitment to take care of me and never hurt me. I strive for loyalty and honesty in relationships, so I always demonstrate these qualities myself. When I feel love, I try to make every effort to make that love stronger every day. Through this dating site, I am looking for a man who openly shows his feelings and is ready to create a relationship in real life. I am not characterized by arrogance or pathos, and I know how to find a common language with people of different backgrounds, regardless of their interests or desires.
Straight
Looking for, ages 58-81.
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Interests,

As for my fetishes, I am into most of them, bondage, humiliation, toys just to name a few. However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be the unseen Master so to speak. That's not to say you will never see or speak to me in person but its just the fantasy I have. want to be able to text you orders of slutty things I want you to do, and you send me back, pic or videos or even live evidence that you did what I told you. Hope that doesn't sound too crazy to you.
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-72.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish

What makes me happy is seeing those around me happy and knowing I put those happiness on their faces
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-90.
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Interests, Erotic Fiction

I am a powerful and beautiful mistress and very much in Long term female led relationship.I have all been in this interested in lifestyle for 9 years and it has really been excellent,I am willing to tell you more about me but if you are interested in serving me and always address me as goddess
Straight
Looking for, ages 26-90.
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I'm 37 years old, living in the Melbourne region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 81.
Straight
Looking for, ages 44-81.
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Interests, Webcam

I believe that my love is here and I will soon meet him. I am a kind, educated woman with a great sense of humor. I will always help those who need it, give advice, calm them down, help in difficult times. My environment considers me kind and sociable
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Interests, Body Hair, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, LGBTQIA+, Mature, Oral, Petite, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam

I'm 38 years old, living in the Connersville region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 47 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-90.
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Interests, Age play, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

I am joyful and optimistic, and I have an ability to make my man feel better no matter what. I am able to really open up to my partner, do nice things for him, value his opinion and give him personal space.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Dom, Sex Toys

If you’re looking for a long term relationship which can lead to marriage, I’d like us to give a try on that. Because I’m willing to meet the right person in life, I’ve been single for 11 months
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-80.
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Interests, Sexual Massage

I am a goddess, a sophisticated lifestyle domina and a female supremacist. I love to control and use male sub for my pleasure. I am as naughty as I can get and being dominant is one trait I posses. I seek a submissive man that will give me lots of pleasure
Straight
Looking for, ages 40-56.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys

I'm the lady your father warned you about and you don't want to my profile, if you're not adventurous
Straight
Looking for, ages 43-79.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, S&M, Sex Toys

I am a kind, easygoing, feminine, lovely woman. I am a very optimistic person and always try to keep calm. I hope we will never argue , I am a very cheerful person. I love life and this world. I consider myself as a positive, smiling, attentive, passionate, caring, family-oriented and affectionate woman. I am looking for a partner with whom we can enjoy this life together.
Straight
Looking for, ages 58-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Couples, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Outdoor Fun

I'm that mature lady who likes to take control,aside that I'm loving, caring,friendly and passionate...swipe right if you want to find out more about me
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys

Never doubt what you are looking for,because your imagination and taught are what lead you to your destiny,so always have a good taught about what you are looking for,so that God will guide you to your good destination.I like a man who is very hard working but i don't like him to do it too much as i want him to stay healthy for me,as i also like to support my man in time of needs .I am always me and will always be....
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-88.
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Interests, BDSM, Sex Toys

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Straight
Looking for, ages 46-90.
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Interests, Threesomes

I'm a person who is positive about every aspect of life
Straight
Looking for, ages 53-87.
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Interests, Age Gap, Mature, Oral, Sexual Massage

I Like feminization, bondage, Chasity/ panties/ lingerie, humiliation, gags, pegging, , anal, alot of things that is reall,Don't like pain
Straight
Looking for, ages 24-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Feet, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M, Webcam

I want him to become my best friend and support in everything and everywhere. It would be great to get much from my future husband but be sure that I am able to give much more.
Straight
Looking for, ages 46-83.
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Interests, BBW / BHM, Fetish, Roleplay

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