Home › United States › Hookups and casual sex Iowa

Browse our members in Iowa

The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current Iowa based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.

Casual encounters, local fuck buddies and no-strings sex in Iowa

Welcome to your personal black book of sexy adventures. We're your key to an endless supply of fuck buddies and amazing nights between the sheets. Whether you're looking for a sexy housewife, a hot young plaything and extra partner - we have what you want and they are aching for you. Our recent explosive growth means we have plenty of members in Iowa already signed up and looking for partners.

Find casual sex, local swingers and regular bed buddies in Iowa with the adult dating site you can trust

Search our members. It's easy to get started and find your match.

My Bed Or Yours Members Around Iowa

Never look down on anyone except you like their shoes Female 38 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

Skiing, camping, hiking, swimming, skydiving, chess

Bisexual

Looking for, ages 58-86. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

Looking for: Male, Female, Couple, Someone Else

Lets explore our dark desires. Female 53 from Ohio Illinois, USA

Looking for some to hone my craft with.
Continuously trying to improve and grow myself.

Straight

Looking for, ages 28-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Fetish, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage

Looking for: Male

I’m here to have fun. I’d very much like to find someone to eventually form a lo.. Female 45 from Des Moines Iowa, USA

I care about the world and its inhabitants, I treat others as I’d like to be treated myself.

Straight

Looking for, ages 39-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male

I am straight dominant, strict, possessive and also a loving mistress who seeks .. Female 38 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

I am straight dominant, strict, possessive and also a loving mistress who seeks a sub for total domination. i am interested in owning a sub as my personal and private property to have sub, worship me in the dungeon.

Straight

Looking for, ages 35-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

Looking for: Male

Hello guys am new here trying to make some friends Female 37 from Floris Iowa, USA

Well seeing my friends and family happy makes me happy

Straight

Looking for, ages 49-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Body Hair, Curves, Mature, Outdoor Fun

Looking for: Male

IMPROFESSIONAL DOMINATRIX @HOPING TO FIND A, •SUBMISSIVE ¢SLAVE TO EXPLOREOUR .. Female 56 from Ohio Illinois, USA

Am into feminization, orgasm denial, worship & face sitting, femdom worship, bondage, chastity, strappon , role play, & feet . . and diapered for ABDL

Straight

Looking for, ages 51-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Bondage, Feet, Fetish, Mature, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

Looking for: Male

My limits would be anything that I dont like and I will let you know when neces.. Female 38 from Tennessee Illinois, USA

I am a dominant woman. I am not a dominatrix. This is not a profession, an act, or a role that I play. I am dominant by nature. I do not consider this a "lifestyle". This is how I am, has always been, and will always be. I am not just dominant sometimes. I am dominant all the time! I can’t turn my personality on and off. I am not just dominant in the bedroom. I am dominant in every room and everywhere.I am not submissive in any way, nor will I do anything that is submissive. That means you or anyone else will never fuck me. So don’t expect a cuckold relationship because I am not nasty and have no interest in being with a bunch of people.I will have a long-term relationship with a guy who knows his place. You will be in chastity almost daily. A LIVE-IN situation is what we will have.I am also a key holder (because that is what you need) for guys who are not local or don’t have other qualifications.You can tell that I am serious, and you will respond to show that you are serious!

Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, Anal, ASMR, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Bukkake, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Edging, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Exhibitionism, Feet, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Lingerie, Mature, MILF, Nylons, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Petite, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Threesomes, Tickle Play, Voyeurism, Webcam

Looking for: Male, Female, Couple, Someone Else

Hello darling let have some fun together now Female 37 from Manhattan Kansas, USA

Hello darling let have some fun together now an i will like you to send me a message

Straight

Looking for, ages 54-76. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests,

Looking for: Male

Am new to this site and am here looking for a serious and long term relationship.. Female 30 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

I've been single for about three years and i hate being single cause it is lonely, i need someone to be with for the rest of my life

Straight

Looking for, ages 60-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Couples, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sexual Massage

Looking for: Male

Just an easy going lady who is down earth, with a good sense of humor. Female 47 from Kansas City Missouri, USA

Life is beautiful; always learn to wear a smile : ).

Straight

Looking for, ages 50-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male, Someone Else

Seeking soulmate...I am Sheri from Boston Massachusetts, looking for serious and.. Female 54 from Oregon Wisconsin, USA

My personality traits are joking kidding teasing people but never forget my responsibilities..

Straight

Looking for, ages 35-88. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Anal, Couples, Cuckold, Curves, Dom, Impact Play, Outdoor Fun, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

Looking for: Male

Hello how are you doing today hope youre doing well Female 52 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

im donna text me and get to know me more you could drop emails and number so we could reach other privately

Straight

Looking for, ages 43-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Curves, Temperature Play, Voyeurism

Looking for: Male

I will bring out the best in my Submissive partner, help find, their self esteem.. Female 39 from Minnesota City Minnesota, USA

39 years, educated, articulate, tall, great shape, work out regularly, average build, safe, sane, healthy, ddf, fun.

Straight

Looking for, ages 39-71. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male, Someone Else

I desire someone I can trust and confide in, someone who is willing to engage in.. Female 41 from Dakota City Iowa, USA

I enjoy training men to be loyal and submissive partners in the BDSM lifestyle. I focus on kinky role play and other pleasurable ways to satisfy my partner. My goal is to derive indescribable pleasure and show my potential sub the intricacies of this lifestyle

Straight

Looking for, ages 55-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Discreet Meets, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male

I am an experienced and skilled BDSM mistress who believes in the power of trust.. Female 43 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

My journey in the world of BDSM spans over the years, during which I have honed my craft and developed a deep understanding of the dynamics involved.

Straight

Looking for, ages 34-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male

Im 28 years old, living in the Tennessee region. Couple 35, 35 from Tennessee Illinois, USA

I'm 28 years old, living in the Tennessee region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 25 and 82.

Straight, Straight

Looking for, ages 19-82. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Erotic Fiction, Sex Toys, Threesomes

Looking for: Male

Hi get to know me google chat kayladora05 at gmail Female 37 from Iowa Falls Iowa, USA

Fetish mommy looking for a serious thing on here not here to play

Straight

Looking for, ages 18-30. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Fetish, Sex Talk, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male

let have some interesting conversation Female 42 from Hawarden Iowa, USA

i am easy going, fun to be with, i dont have time for drama. so come nicely and respectful thanks

Bisexual

Looking for, ages 40-76. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Anal, BDSM, Crossdress, Discreet Meets, Leather / Latex, Lingerie, Nylons, Roleplay

Looking for: Male, Couple, Someone Else

Bow Down to me and you won’t regret it Female 23 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

Let me tease you into submission till I’m satisfied

Bisexual

Looking for, ages 18-76. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male, Female

id like to find someone whos open , honest , easy going, a sense of humor is a.. Female 69 from Ohio Illinois, USA

Would like to let you know that i am confident , serious , responsible , decent , humble and cooking , entertaining and home activities, listening to music

Straight

Looking for, ages 55-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Outdoor Fun, Sexual Massage

Looking for: Male

Looking for some good love and affection?? Female 32 from Arkansaw Wisconsin, USA

I am an easy going woman, down to earth but very much fun to be with, feel free to send me a message let’s see where it goes.

Straight

Looking for, ages 47-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Fetish, Lingerie, Mature, Outdoor Fun, Pegging, Roleplay, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Webcam

Looking for: Male

Lets embark on an electrifying adventure where pleasure and pain comes together.. Female 30 from Rhodes Iowa, USA

I'm going to keep it brief. I’ve been a kinky dominant for quite a while with experiences in a good number of kinks you would love to find out.

Straight

Looking for, ages 25-87. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age Gap, Age play, BDSM, Body Hair, Bondage, Couples, Crossdress, Cuckold, Curves, Dirty Talk, Discreet Meets, Dom, Electro Play, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Group Sex, Impact Play, Lace, Leather / Latex, Mature, Oral, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, Tickle Play

Looking for: Male

are your eyes trying to strip me off my clothes?? Female 37 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

looking for sub to train to serve this mistress pussy with loyalty

Straight

Looking for, ages 18-75. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Cuckold, Dom, Roleplay, Sex Toys

Looking for: Male, Couple

looking to explore this platform finding excitment and pleasure is the key at so.. Female 34 from Illinois City Illinois, USA

i love myself i am caring honest and trustworthy love to explore new things and always willing to go beyond limit

Straight

Looking for, ages 51-79. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, Age play, BDSM, Cuckold, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Toys, Sub

Looking for: Male

A Dominant mistresss seeking for a submissive sissy / sub willing to be obedient.. Female 34 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I like exploring with people. Finding out what sensations they enjoy, what narratives are going on in their heads, & how we can connect those things to create a scene that makes you feel how you want to feel

Bisexual

Looking for, ages 22-90. A Relationship, Casual Dating, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Friends With Benefits, Hookups, Online, Open to Anything!, Swinging Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys, Sub

Looking for: Male, Female, Someone Else

Active member locations

Creston Iowa /
Burnside Iowa /
Guthrie Center Iowa /
Melrose Iowa /
Bondurant Iowa /
Winterset Iowa /
Fairfield Iowa /
Lenox Iowa /
Dallas Iowa /
Knoxville Iowa /
Nashua Iowa /
Mystic Iowa /
Jamaica Iowa /
Rhodes Iowa /

Cast aside your misconceptions about your average adult contacts site member. Believe it or not, most of our members are not sad, lonely, bald, fat guys although we have a few or those if that's what takes your fancy. The majority of our members are the average guy or girl next door who just enjoy sex and need a quick, convenient way of satisfying their sexual needs without getting into a long, complicated relationship or hiring the services of a 'professional'.

Professional singles who don't have time for a serious relationship
Attached men and women looking for discreet affairs
Recently single guys and girls wanting to expand their horizons

Wanted, men to satisfy horny women in Iowa

We have an abundance of horny women of all ages, sexy MILFs, Cougars and swinging couples all in need of a good fucking. It would seem our 'women go free' offer has proven slightly too popular leaving a gap to be filled by some energetic guys who think they know how to handle a woman or two.

You think you are up for the job? Apply here

We recommend that you put a little effort into making your profile as attractive as possible to get the most number of messages. But you're free to do that at your leisure. As soon as you sign up you've got access to our entire member list. To create an account we just need your email address so we can send your details to you. There's no credit card needed at all for your initial account. So why not take a peek.

Why should you join My Bed of Yours?

At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.

Verified Profiles for Peace of Mind

We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.

Discreet & Safe Sex Dating

Privacy is paramount to us. We understand the importance of discretion, especially when it comes to intimate connections. Our commitment to anonymity means that your personal information is always kept confidential. Our in-house security team works tirelessly to ensure that your privacy is protected.

Security & Data Protection

Your safety is our top priority. That's why we've invested in robust security measures to safeguard your data. There aren't any apps to download and install so your membership can remain private.

At My Bed or Yours, we're dedicated to providing you with a safe and enjoyable online dating experience. Join us today and discover a community where you can connect with confidence.