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I'm 46 years old, living in the Santa Ana region.
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Im all available for anything fun Female 33 from Long Beach California, USA

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Im in need of a man that wants to spank me and dominate me Female 64 from Sacramento California, USA

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I’m hoping to meet my better half. Female 37 from Santa Monica California, USA

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I am a kind and debonair person. There is always a smile on my face. Female 40 from San Jose California, USA

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I am a gorgeous dom in search of a loyal and submissive sissy male to bring me p.. Female 33 from California City California, USA

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I am a professional dominatrix, lifestyle Mistress, and one of the most naturall.. Female 35 from San Francisco California, USA

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is defined by her kindness, strength, and compassion. She uplifts others with a caring heart, faces challenges with resilience, and spreads positivity. Her integrity and honesty outline every action she takes, making for trusting connections and admiration.


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Beautiful Goddess seeks a male submissive to explore her fetish and kinks Female 31 from San Francisco California, USA

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Learning My Role as a submissive Female 46 from French Camp California, USA

I'm kind of particular in some things when it comes to being submissive. I don't want a mystery Dom who I don't even know if I'm attracted to or not. Super new to the lifestyle, but I think everyone here will have different definitions of what it means for them. Im looking for a Dominate man that I'm hyper turned on by. I don't want to be asked to submit right off the cuff so please don't go there. I have a strong personality with most people but when my Dom is near I want to be completely taken back by his presence. I love collars and leashes. I enjoy light discipline with small amounts of pain but I prefer pleasure. I have set boundaries that are non negotiable. I also have some that I fully expect to be pushed slightly. I don't want to be degraded.. I like to please my Dom based on the things he's attracted to the most. I'm extremely turned on by a large hand wrapped around my throat and hair pulling. There's more but you'll need to find out for yourself if you can get that far.


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Do you want to know about me? Then what does Long Island iced tea say about me? Female 43 from Los Angeles California, USA

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I’m here to bring out the submissive part in you Female 29 from Fremont California, USA

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A healthy BDSM relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality. So, you.. Female 30 from Los Angeles California, USA

As you may have seen on My profile on the site, I am kinky, I am dominant, I am superior, I am demanding and will not have it any other way.


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Passionate dominant woman looking for a loyal sub Female 60 from Los Angeles California, USA

Mistress abena is an experience mistress on this BDSM lifestyle and I have lead this lifestyle for over years now..
Am searching for for a submissive playmate who can satisfy all my kink and also we can be on long term relationship depending on personal understanding


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Looking for male sub or dom in SoCal! I am 18, and my kinks are degradation, .. Female 18 from Norco California, USA

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