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Let me tell you more about this lifestyle.it involves different roleplay pegging.. Female 33 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

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nice and amazing. Im the best of my kind looking to give the best i got to my p.. Female 49 from Gotham Wisconsin, USA

Im single never been married before, and I’m new here so I’m looking for to find a good partner to start a new relationship with


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Let love lead us ,I’m here looking for love Female 43 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

Hello I’m new on here looking for a longer term relationship so I will to talk with you more and see where it lead us to if you don’t mind sending me a message


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I can be your sweet dream or a beautiful nightmare Female 24 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

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Older Dominant Mistress on the look out for a submissive single sissy slut who i.. Female 40 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
If you are sub and want to be pampered and obedient, treated and disciplined and want to live your wildest fantasies, let's talk.


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I want someone real and ready to commit to me Female 26 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

Come let’s explore my kinky world and make memories together


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Im 38 years old, living in the Dallas region. Female 38 from Dallas Wisconsin, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Dallas region.
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Im 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region. Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I'm 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.


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I’m down for meeting up with serious people’s Female 29 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

I'm here and i want you to know that I'm not the types of women who usually come online just for playing games or breaking heart. I do respect myself very well, so i will not introduces myself In doing such things like that.


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trust me i am someone you will always want to be with Female 40 from Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

A loving and understanding mistress that always available for you


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Im 37 years old, living in the Wisconsin Rapids region. Female 37 from Wisconsin Rapids Wisconsin, USA

I'm 37 years old, living in the Wisconsin Rapids region.
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Hello I’m fallen like to write. I’d like submissive to love and take care of Female 20 from Maple Grove Minnesota, USA

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im looking for a serious relationship Female 56 from Inver Grove Heights Minnesota, USA

i'm a very submissive woman that love to be treated like a queen and care for and i will aslo treat my spouse thesame with lot of dignity and respect


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Looking to have fun,hangout,try new experiences Female 34 from Elk River Minnesota, USA

Easy going, open minded, spontaneous, like to travel, witty too


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I am a woman who enjoys every moment of life and those things that it offers us,.. Female 38 from Arkansaw Wisconsin, USA

I tend to be very fun and not stress about unimportant things, I am always interested in knowing new things.


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I navigate life with grace, embracing her cultural heritage while contributing t.. Female 37 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

savoring delicious soul food at local restaurants, attending community events that celebrate her culture, or spending time outdoors enjoying Minnesota's natural beauty


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Does your wife know I’m the reason you can’t spoil her anymore? Female 46 from South Saint Paul Minnesota, USA

I'm a sexy petite blondish brunette, I can be just as cruel as I am loving, what's it worth to you to find out?


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Here I start my search for true love and a genuine connection with a real man. I.. Female 51 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

My charm lies not only in my ability to articulate my thoughts but also in my genuine interest in others, fostering an environment of open and honest dialogue. Let's communicate and feel each other special!


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Love , happiness and conservationist s Female 46 from Andover Minnesota, USA

Honest caring loving open minded with a good sense if humor and a good listener


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I need a loyal sub ready to satisfy my sex urge Female 38 from Minneapolis Minnesota, USA

Sadist love naughty adult boys
With real devoted heart ! Let me own you


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I am straight dominant, strict, possessive and also a loving mistress who seeks .. Female 38 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

I am straight dominant, strict, possessive and also a loving mistress who seeks a sub for total domination. i am interested in owning a sub as my personal and private property to have sub, worship me in the dungeon.


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Im 48 years old, living in the Baltimore region. Female 48 from Wisconsin Dells Wisconsin, USA

I'm 48 years old, living in the Baltimore region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 75.


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I amOnly Dominant when in Bed and I always want My sub to do every single thing .. Female 31 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
have few limits


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sincere submissive girl looking for the right master/Dominant Daddy that i will .. Female 30 from Chippewa Falls Wisconsin, USA

I am a friendly, outgoing type of person who likes to have fun. Very honest, high energy, love to laugh and enjoy life. Am interested in a variety of subjects, activities, etc... I am willing to invest the time and effort to build a rewarding friendship that we will both enjoy and benefit from. Am a casual person, I really enjoy the simple things in life and have always believed that it is not what you are doing, but who you are with that is the most important thing.


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If you are a family oriented man, you love sexy hardworking and a homely woman Female 38 from Minnesota Lake Minnesota, USA

I'm 38 years old, living in the Minnesota Lake region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 71.I'm White / Caucasian with a Average body shape Dark brown hairI drink socially I don't smokeI will travel for hookups


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Active member locations

  • Big Lake Minnesota /
  • Eden Valley /
  • Maple Grove Minnesota /
  • Saint Cloud Minnesota /
  • Houlton Wisconsin /
  • Forest Lake Minnesota /
  • Isanti Minnesota /
  • Andover Minnesota /
  • Montrose Minnesota /
  • Bemidji Minnesota /
  • Paynesville Minnesota /
  • Lindstrom Minnesota /
  • Akeley Minnesota /
  • Brainerd Minnesota /

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