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My Bed Or Yours Members Around Minnesota
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Looking for, ages 33-79.
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Im single never been married before, and I’m new here so I’m looking for to find a good partner to start a new relationship with
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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Hello I’m new on here looking for a longer term relationship so I will to talk with you more and see where it lead us to if you don’t mind sending me a message
Straight
Looking for, ages 50-90.
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Looking for, ages 18-90.
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I want to meet a true sub. True doms and subs know age, experience and appearance are secondary. Submissiveness is what matters.
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Straight
Looking for, ages 35-85.
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Looking for, ages 18-64.
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I'm 38 years old, living in the Dallas region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 49 and 84.
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-84.
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Interests, BDSM

I'm 39 years old, living in the Saint Paul region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 99.
Straight
Looking for, ages 30-90.
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I'm here and i want you to know that I'm not the types of women who usually come online just for playing games or breaking heart. I do respect myself very well, so i will not introduces myself In doing such things like that.
Straight
Looking for, ages 19-39.
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Looking for, ages 55-90.
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I'm 37 years old, living in the Wisconsin Rapids region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 82.
Straight
Looking for, ages 36-82.
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I’d love a someone who loves to cuddle, sweetheart, kind
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-29.
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Interests, Dom, Sex Toys

i'm a very submissive woman that love to be treated like a queen and care for and i will aslo treat my spouse thesame with lot of dignity and respect
Straight
Looking for, ages 54-90.
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Interests,

Easy going, open minded, spontaneous, like to travel, witty too
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Sub

I tend to be very fun and not stress about unimportant things, I am always interested in knowing new things.
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Looking for, ages 49-90.
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savoring delicious soul food at local restaurants, attending community events that celebrate her culture, or spending time outdoors enjoying Minnesota's natural beauty
Straight
Looking for, ages 47-73.
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Interests,

I'm a sexy petite blondish brunette, I can be just as cruel as I am loving, what's it worth to you to find out?
Straight
Looking for, ages 18-90.
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Interests, Age play, Dom, Fetish, Roleplay

My charm lies not only in my ability to articulate my thoughts but also in my genuine interest in others, fostering an environment of open and honest dialogue. Let's communicate and feel each other special!
Straight
Looking for, ages 49-90.
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Interests,

Honest caring loving open minded with a good sense if humor and a good listener
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom

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With real devoted heart ! Let me own you
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Looking for, ages 53-90.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Pegging, Sex Toys

I am straight dominant, strict, possessive and also a loving mistress who seeks a sub for total domination. i am interested in owning a sub as my personal and private property to have sub, worship me in the dungeon.
Straight
Looking for, ages 35-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, Roleplay, S&M

I'm 48 years old, living in the Baltimore region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 75.
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-90.
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Interests, Age play, BDSM, Dom, Sex Toys, Sub

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really.
have few limits
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Looking for, ages 31-86.
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I am a friendly, outgoing type of person who likes to have fun. Very honest, high energy, love to laugh and enjoy life. Am interested in a variety of subjects, activities, etc... I am willing to invest the time and effort to build a rewarding friendship that we will both enjoy and benefit from. Am a casual person, I really enjoy the simple things in life and have always believed that it is not what you are doing, but who you are with that is the most important thing.
Straight
Looking for, ages 37-69.
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Interests, Age play, Anal, BDSM, Bondage, Discreet Meets, Dom, MILF, Oral, Outdoor Fun, Roleplay, S&M, Sex Talk, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub

I'm 38 years old, living in the Minnesota Lake region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 71.I'm White / Caucasian with a Average body shape Dark brown hairI drink socially I don't smokeI will travel for hookups
Straight
Looking for, ages 45-71.
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Interests, BDSM, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Fetish, S&M, Sub

Active member locations
- Big Lake Minnesota /
- Eden Valley /
- Maple Grove Minnesota /
- Saint Cloud Minnesota /
- Houlton Wisconsin /
- Forest Lake Minnesota /
- Isanti Minnesota /
- Andover Minnesota /
- Montrose Minnesota /
- Bemidji Minnesota /
- Paynesville Minnesota /
- Lindstrom Minnesota /
- Akeley Minnesota /
- Brainerd Minnesota /
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