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I’m sarah and new I am looking for a man who is looking for me. I am looking for.. Female 36 from Garrett Park Maryland, USA

I am looking for a man who is looking for me. I am looking for someone who will love me and I will care of him. A man who is open, caring, generous, faithful, with a good humor and sincere, romantic inside, who can hug and kiss me without any reason…


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you will listen to me . ill make it fun Female 19 from Halethorpe Maryland, USA

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Bisexual

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SEEKINGFORASUBM ISSIVESUBTOSOMI NATE Female 30 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain.


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I take this seriously. I expect the same. I am open to messages. Be respectful.. Female 29 from Trenton New Jersey, USA

I'm a happy, educated, well traveled, health conscious, disease-free, poc and more. Currently seeking a loving LT-FLR, Level 3. I’ve found that a male who is passionate, trustworthy, open-minded and has his ego intact works for me.. This is not an experiment for me. This is my lifestyle.


Straight

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Hey there I’m Clara single never been married before ,I’m new on this site hopin.. Female 38 from Bronx New York, USA

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I am little mermaid looking for an obident sub to control Female 28 from New York New York, USA

I am going to drain your balls all day with my contents and tasks.  This isn’t onlyfans for a reason


Bisexual

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I am a dominant woman, and I take pride in it and I’m here to explore this and m.. Female 40 from Florida New York, USA

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Straight

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Your favorite addiction, come be a good disciple for your deity Female 20 from New York New York, USA

I am a personal fan of control and organization especially when it comes to your livelihood and vulnerabilities while giving you the satisfaction that you deserve. I am looking for finsubs to mold into my perfect and personal servants for long and short terms, using orgasm control, chastity, behavioral modification, brain washing humiliation and many more to perfect them to my liking. I desire to have a network of subs to serve me.


Bisexual

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Looking, I will know when I find it Couple 42, 42 from New York New York, USA

Kind, honest and adventurous. Anything else just ask


Bisexual, Bisexual

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I’m open to meeting new people and learning new things Female 35 from Manassas Virginia, USA

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Straight

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Mistress Amy ready to explore the kinky world with a submissive obedient sub. Female 40 from New York New York, USA

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Here to enjoy ourselves together Couple 29, 29 from Middletown New York, USA

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I am a lifestyle mistress who is looking for a submissive sub to train Female 45 from Dallas Pennsylvania, USA

I love swimming, traveling, reading and having good time with my sub after a kinky session


Straight

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Im 41 years old, living in the Holmes region. Couple 42, 41 from Holmes Pennsylvania, USA

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Looking for a third to join us . Wanting to try other and exciting opportunities Couple 32, 32 from Athol Massachusetts, USA

Just ask , it's new to both of us. Both laid back.


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Looking to start some new adventures. Down for some good ole fun with no strings.. Female 46 from Providence Rhode Island, USA

I'm 46 years old looking for fun. Recently separated and want to start some new adventures.


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Just looking for some kinky fun with a fun loving dude Female 23 from Washington District of Columbia, USA

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Straight

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Am single never married but I have been in a bad relationship before and I don’t.. Female 37 from Cherry Hill New Jersey, USA

Am single never married but I have been in a bad relationship before and I don’t want that to happen to me again


Straight

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I a well experienced mistress seeking an obedient sub Female 34 from New York New York, USA

A well experienced mistress here to explore more of your submissive side


Straight

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Hi there i am new on here , ask me anything you want to know about me Female 42 from Chelmsford Massachusetts, USA

I am a very honest romantic woman and i like to please  and satisfy my man with much affection   and  romance


Straight

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Im experienced Dom been into this  lifestyle for many years looking for somethi.. Female 34 from Boston Massachusetts, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Boston region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 90.


Straight

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feeling all kinds of naughty. Care to join me for some adult fun and see where t.. Female 43 from Queenstown Maryland, USA

Let’s begin our kinky adventure for a perfect kinky relationship


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Dominant figure looking for a loyal and committed sub to serve me in real life Female 26 from New York New York, USA

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hello there everyone , im a single lady and have never been married looking for.. Female 72 from Washington Navy Yard District of Columbia, USA

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invest in their upbringing and development. Support and inspire my husband to do good deeds in the family and in general.


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I see myself as an intelligent, sensitive woman with a big kind heart and a brig.. Female 47 from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, USA

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